- Confidence
- Established
- Formation
- Derivation
- First attested
- before 1730, Du Cerceau
- Ultimate origin
- French (bouder,-oir)
Pronunciation
- IPA: /bu.dwaʁ/[1]
Forms
boudoir m (plural boudoirs)[1]
Etymology
It is from French bouder + -oir, a jocular formation: properly “a room to sulk in”, where the lady of the house could withdraw to be alone.[2][3][4][5] Bouder “to sulk” (14th century) is an expressive popular word, named from the pout one makes when sulking.[2]
Earliest recorded meaning
It is first recorded before 1730, in Du Cerceau, for a small, elegant room where the mistress of the house retired to be alone or to talk with close friends.[6][7] The Académie labelled it familiar in its editions of 1740 and 1798.[7]
Semantic evolution
In the 18th century the boudoir became a place of love affairs, as in Sade's La Philosophie dans le boudoir; hence succès de boudoir and diplomatie de boudoir, a policy inspired by women.[7][3] In the 19th century it was also given to a sponge finger, a use that is not well explained: Rey suggests an allusion to the elegant little room, or to the rounded shape of the lips or of the biscuit; the Petit Robert dates it to 1929.[7][4]
English took the word in 1777.[8]
Timeline
- before 1730 – First record, in Du Cerceau.[6][4]
- 1740 – The Académie records it as a familiar word.[7]
- 1777 – English borrows the word.[8]
- 1929 – Recorded for a sugared sponge finger.[4]
Meanings
Noun
- A lady's small, elegant private sitting room, a boudoir.[4][9]
- An oblong sponge finger covered with sugar.[4][9]
Related words
References
- ^ a b Wiktionary, the free dictionary, https://en.wiktionary.org
- ^ a b Bloch, Oscar; Wartburg, Walther von (1989), Dictionnaire étymologique de la langue française, 8th ed., Paris: Presses universitaires de France
- ^ a b Guilbert, Louis; Lagane, René; Niobey, Georges, eds. (1971–1978; 1989), Grand Larousse de la langue française, Paris: Larousse
- ^ a b c d e f Rey-Debove, Josette; Rey, Alain, eds. (2007), Le Petit Robert de la langue française, Paris: Le Robert
- ^ Littré, Émile (1873–1877), Dictionnaire de la langue française, 4 vols. and supplement, Paris: Hachette
- ^ a b Rey, Alain, ed. (2005), Le Grand Robert de la langue française, electronic version, Paris: Le Robert
- ^ a b c d e Rey, Alain, ed. (1992), Dictionnaire historique de la langue française, Paris: Le Robert
- ^ a b Harper, Douglas. Online Etymology Dictionary, https://www.etymonline.com
- ^ a b Dictionnaire de français Larousse, larousse.fr/dictionnaires/francais (accessed 2024)
Borrowed into
- English boudoir
Cite this entry
“Boudoir.” Etymologically, 18 Oct. 2026, etymologically.com/fr/boudoir. Accessed 18 Oct. 2026.
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