Etymologically

dame

Etymology and origin of the French word dame

Confidence
Established
Formation
Inherited
First attested
c. 1050, Vie de saint Alexis (dama)
Inherited from
Latin domina
Ultimate origin
Latin (domus)
Etymology tree
inherited borrowed derived
Latin domina
French dame
French madame

Pronunciation

Forms

dame f (plural dames)[1] Old French dama (about 1050), then dame, dome is also found.[2][3][4]

Etymology

It is inherited from Latin domina (“mistress of the house; wife; mistress; sovereign”), contracted to domna by the 1st century, the feminine of dominus (“master”), from domus (“house”).[2][3][5][1][6] The vowel ⟨a⟩ for Latin ⟨o⟩ is explained by the word's frequent unstressed use before names, as a title.[2][5][7] The Petit Robert traces “domus” to an Indo-European root Proto-Indo-European *dem- (“house; to build”).[8]

Cognate with Romanian doamnă, Italian donna, Occitan dona, Catalan dona, Spanish dueña and Portuguese dona.[8]

Earliest recorded meaning

In the Life of Saint Alexis (about 1050) dama is the title of a married woman of high rank; the Chanson de Roland says of Roland that pur sa bealté dames lui sont amies.[2][4]

Semantic evolution

In the Middle Ages, and still in the 17th century, dame was the wife of a noble, while a bourgeois wife was called demoiselle; the feudal sense parallels that of Latin dominus, which in Merovingian and Carolingian Gaul meant the lord of a fief.[3][5] It also meant a wife (Chrétien de Troyes, about 1175) and, in courtly language, the lady one loves (late 12th century), as in la dame de ses pensées.[2][3] From about 1200 it was applied to women outside the nobility, a use that spread in the 16th century as a polite word for femme.[2][3][5]

Notre Dame, the Virgin, dates from about 1220, and abstractions were personified as damme Théologie (13th century).[2] In games, the queen at chess and cards and the crowned piece in draughts gave jeu de dames (1508), damer (1562) and damer le pion (1688).[2][3][5] The interjection dame! (Molière, 1665) comes from par Notre Dame or from Damedieu “Lord God”; it was still common in the country in the 19th century and survives in Brittany.[2][3][5]

Timeline

  • c. 1050 – Dama, Life of Saint Alexis.[2]
  • c. 1175 – “Wife”, Chrétien de Troyes.[2]
  • Late 12th century – The beloved lady, in courtly lyric.[2]
  • c. 1220 – Nostre Dame, Gautier de Coinci.[2]
  • 1508 – Jeu des dames.[2]
  • 1562 – Damer.[5]
  • 1665 – The interjection dame!, Molière.[2]

Meanings

Noun

  1. A lady: a woman, especially a married one; politely, any woman: une vieille dame, le coiffeur pour dames.[1][8]
  2. (historical) A noblewoman; the lady of a manor; a lady loved by a knight.[9][3]
  3. Notre-Dame: the Virgin Mary.[2][1]
  4. (chess, cards) The queen.[1]
  5. (plural) draughts, checkers: jouer aux dames, (singular) a king in draughts.[1][3]

Interjection

  1. (dated, regional) Dame!, dame oui!: why yes!, well![8][3]

Word family

Usage notes

A separate dame “dike, dam” (1270, dam, damp in the 15th century) is borrowed from Dutch dam.[10][11]

References

  1. ^ a b c d e f g Wiktionary, the free dictionary, https://en.wiktionary.org
  2. ^ a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p Trésor de la langue française informatisé (2004), ATILF – CNRS & Université de Lorraine, atilf.fr/tlfi; electronic version of Imbs, Paul; Quemada, Bernard, eds. (1971–1994), Trésor de la langue française, Paris: CNRS / Gallimard
  3. ^ a b c d e f g h i j Rey, Alain, ed. (1992), Dictionnaire historique de la langue française, Paris: Le Robert
  4. ^ a b Littré, Émile (1873–1877), Dictionnaire de la langue française, 4 vols. and supplement, Paris: Hachette
  5. ^ a b c d e f g Bloch, Oscar; Wartburg, Walther von (1989), Dictionnaire étymologique de la langue française, 8th ed., Paris: Presses universitaires de France
  6. ^ Wartburg, Walther von, et al. (1922–2002), Französisches Etymologisches Wörterbuch, 25 vols., Bonn / Leipzig / Basel: Klopp / Teubner / Zbinden, p. 3, 123b
  7. ^ Meyer-Lübke, Wilhelm (1935), Romanisches etymologisches Wörterbuch, 3rd ed., Heidelberg: Winter
  8. ^ a b c d Rey-Debove, Josette; Rey, Alain, eds. (2007), Le Petit Robert de la langue française, Paris: Le Robert
  9. ^ Guilbert, Louis; Lagane, René; Niobey, Georges, eds. (1971–1978; 1989), Grand Larousse de la langue française, Paris: Larousse
  10. ^ Rey, Alain, ed. (2005), Le Grand Robert de la langue française, electronic version, Paris: Le Robert
  11. ^ Wartburg, Walther von, et al. (1922–2002), Französisches Etymologisches Wörterbuch, 25 vols., Bonn / Leipzig / Basel: Klopp / Teubner / Zbinden, p. 15/2, 53a

Derived terms

Related etymologies

Cite this entry

“Dame.” Etymologically, 18 Oct. 2026, etymologically.com/fr/dame. Accessed 18 Oct. 2026.

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