madam
Pronunciation
- /ˈmædəm/[1]
Etymology
It is inherited from Middle English madame,[2][3] borrowed from Old French madame, originally the phrase ma dame (“my lady”),[4][5][6][3] from ma (“my”) and dame (“lady”) (the source of dame).[4][6][7] The French phrase goes back to Latin mea domina (“my lady”),[5][8][9] from meus (“my”) and domina (“mistress of the house”),[10][7] the feminine of dominus (“lord, master of a household”),[10] from domus (“house”).[7] The Anglo-Norman form is recorded from the second quarter of the 12th century, meaning "(my) lady".[11] The OED compares Italian madonna (the source of madonna) and the medieval Latin phrase.[4][5]
Earliest recorded meaning
A respectful form of address to a woman, at first used by servants to their mistress and by others to a lady of rank: about 1300.[4][5] Barnhart dates it probably before 1300,[12][7] and Merriam-Webster to the 14th century.[3]
Semantic evolution
The OED notes that metrical evidence shows the original stress on the second syllable, with a long vowel, lasting into the 16th century, and that the spelling madame stayed common until about 1600; after that the stress moved to the first syllable, the second vowel was reduced, and the contracted form ma'am arose by the late 17th century.[4] The spelling madame was then kept mostly for a French title.[4][6] The word became a conventional address to women of any rank, though chiefly to married women.[5] From the late 16th century it also meant a lady of rank (1543, now obsolete)[4] and, often disparagingly, an affected fine lady (1598).[4][5][6] Hoad dates the sense "kept mistress" to the 18th century and "hussy" to the 19th;[6] the sense of a courtesan or prostitute is recorded from 1719,[5][7] and that of a woman who keeps a brothel by 1871.[5] Johnson (1755) called it "the term of compliment used in address to ladies of every degree".[13] In English dialect it was a title prefixed to the surname of a squire's wife or another gentlewoman instead of "Mrs.", and in Somerset the title of a parish schoolmistress.[14] In Charleston and elsewhere in the American South, Lyell observed in 1849, Madam was the title of a mother whose son had married.[5]
Timeline
- c. 1300 – a polite form of address to a woman.[4][5]
- before 1375 – prefixed to a woman's first name.[4]
- 1543 – a lady of rank (obsolete by 1806).[4]
- 1598 – an affected fine lady.[4]
- 1622 – verb, to address as madam.[4]
- 1647 – the mistress of a house.[4]
- 1719 – a courtesan or prostitute.[5][7]
- 1871 – a woman who keeps a brothel.[5]
Meanings
Noun
- A polite form of address to a woman, used in place of her name: Can I help you find anything, madam?[15][3][4]
- A title placed before the name of an office held by a woman: Madam Speaker.[4][3]
- A woman who runs a brothel.[15][5][7]
- (British, informal) A precocious or pompous little girl: She's turning into a proper little madam.[15][6]
- The mistress of a household; in South African use, the madam, the lady of the house.[15][4]
Verb
Related words
Usage notes
As a form of address the plural is usually mesdames, while madams is used for the other senses.[15][4]
References
- ^ Wiktionary, the free dictionary, https://en.wiktionary.org
- ^ Stratmann, Francis Henry (1891), A Middle-English Dictionary, revised by Henry Bradley, Oxford: Clarendon Press
- ^ a b c d e f Merriam-Webster Unabridged Dictionary (2024), online ed., Springfield, Mass.: Merriam-Webster
- ^ a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s Oxford English Dictionary Online (accessed March 2026), Oxford: Oxford University Press
- ^ a b c d e f g h i j k l m Harper, Douglas. Online Etymology Dictionary, https://www.etymonline.com
- ^ a b c d e f Hoad, T. F., ed. (1986), The Concise Oxford Dictionary of English Etymology, Oxford: Clarendon Press
- ^ a b c d e f g Barnhart, Robert K. (1988), The Barnhart Dictionary of Etymology
- ^ Skeat, Walter W. (1911), A Concise Etymological Dictionary of the English Language, new ed., Oxford: Clarendon Press
- ^ Klein, Ernest. A Comprehensive Etymological Dictionary of the English Language. 2 vols. Amsterdam: Elsevier, 1966–1967.
- ^ a b The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language (online 2024), 5th ed., Boston: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt
- ^ Anglo-Norman Dictionary (AND2), Aberystwyth University, anglo-norman.net (2nd ed., 2005–)
- ^ Barnhart, Robert K., ed. (1995), The Barnhart Concise Dictionary of Etymology, New York: HarperCollins
- ^ Johnson, Samuel (1755), A Dictionary of the English Language, London; 4th ed. 1773; Johnson's Dictionary Online, ed. Beth Rapp Young et al.
- ^ Wright, Joseph, ed. (1898–1905), The English Dialect Dictionary, 6 vols., Oxford: Henry Frowde; via EDD Online 4.0, University of Innsbruck (CC BY 4.0)
- ^ a b c d e Collins English Dictionary (2023), Glasgow: HarperCollins
- ^ Shorter Oxford English Dictionary on Historical Principles (2002), 5th ed., ed. William R. Trumble and Angus Stevenson, Oxford: Oxford University Press