Etymology and origin of the French word côtoyer
- Confidence
- Established
- Formation
- Derivation
- First attested
- c. 1131 Couronnement de Louis More words from the 12th century
- Ultimate origin
- Latin costa
Etymology tree
From the same root
Pronunciation
- /ko.twa.je/[1]
Forms
côtoyer[1] Old French costeier, costoier, costier.[2][3][4]
Etymology
It is formed from French côte + -oyer.[2][1][5] Rey ties it to the noun in the sense “side, flank”, since it first meant going side by side with someone.[6] The noun comes from Latin costa (“rib, flank, side”).[7][8][9]
Compare Italian costeggiare.[3]
Earliest recorded meaning
About 1131 the Couronnement de Louis has Tote Bretaigne commence a costoier (“he begins to sail along the whole coast of Brittany”), the sense “to go along the coasts”.[2][3] The Chanson de Roland already has costeïr for placing someone at one's side.[3]
Semantic evolution
In the 12th century the verb also meant to walk beside someone: in Chrétien de Troyes's Chevalier de la charrette the maiden le chevalier de près costoie (“rides close beside the knight”).[3][10] It soon meant to go along anything, such as a river bank or a road.[6][3] Its sense of being in contact with people dates from 1606 according to Rey,[6] while the Larousse dates that sense to the 20th century and gives 1606 (Nicot) for a thing lying along another.[10] The figurative sense “to come close to something without reaching it”, as in côtoyer le ridicule, is from 1845.[6][10] The nautical sense “to coast” has become dated, but it still colours the other uses.[6]
Richelet noted a pronunciation côteier, since abandoned.[3] The derivatives côtoiement (Hugo, 1862) and côtoyeur (Rollinat, 1883) are late.[2]
Timeline
- c. 1131 – Costeier “to go along the coasts” appears in the Couronnement de Louis.[2]
- c. 1175 – Chrétien de Troyes uses it for going beside someone.[10]
- 1606 – Nicot's dictionary records a new sense.[6][10]
- 1845 – The figurative côtoyer le ridicule is recorded.[6]
- 1862 – Hugo uses côtoiement in Les Misérables.[2]
- 1883 – Rollinat uses côtoyeur.[2]
Meanings
Verb
- (dated) To walk side by side with someone;[11][3][2] côtoyer une armée, to march along its flank.[11][3][2]
- To rub shoulders with, be in frequent contact with people; reciprocal se côtoyer.[11][1]
- To go along, skirt or border something: côtoyer un canal.[11][3]
- (figurative) To come close to, border on: côtoyer le ridicule.[11][6]
- (nautical, rare) To sail along a coast.[1][3]
Word family
- côtoiement
Related words
References
- ^ a b c d e Wiktionary, the free dictionary, https://en.wiktionary.org
- ^ a b c d e f g h i Trésor de la langue française informatisé (2004), ATILF – CNRS & Université de Lorraine, atilf.fr/tlfi; electronic version of Imbs, Paul; Quemada, Bernard, eds. (1971–1994), Trésor de la langue française, Paris: CNRS / Gallimard
- ^ a b c d e f g h i j k Littré, Émile (1873–1877), Dictionnaire de la langue française, 4 vols. and supplement, Paris: Hachette
- ^ Anglo-Norman Dictionary (AND2), Aberystwyth University, anglo-norman.net (2nd ed., 2005–)
- ^ Rey, Alain, ed. (2005), Le Grand Robert de la langue française, electronic version, Paris: Le Robert
- ^ a b c d e f g h Rey, Alain, ed. (1992), Dictionnaire historique de la langue française, Paris: Le Robert
- ^ Bloch, Oscar; Wartburg, Walther von (1989), Dictionnaire étymologique de la langue française, 8th ed., Paris: Presses universitaires de France
- ^ Picoche, Jacqueline (1991), Dictionnaire étymologique du français, Paris: Le Robert (Les Usuels du Robert)
- ^ Wartburg, Walther von, et al. (1922–2002), Französisches Etymologisches Wörterbuch, 25 vols., Bonn / Leipzig / Basel: Klopp / Teubner / Zbinden, p. 2, 1245a
- ^ a b c d e Guilbert, Louis; Lagane, René; Niobey, Georges, eds. (1971–1978; 1989), Grand Larousse de la langue française, Paris: Larousse
- ^ a b c d e Rey-Debove, Josette; Rey, Alain, eds. (2007), Le Petit Robert de la langue française, Paris: Le Robert
Cite this entry
“Côtoyer.” Etymologically, 14 Nov. 2026, etymologically.com/fr/c%C3%B4toyer. Accessed 15 Nov. 2026.
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