shame
Pronunciation
- IPA: /ʃeɪm/[1]
Etymology
It is inherited from Middle English shame, scheome,[2] inherited from Old English sċeamu (“feeling of guilt or disgrace; dishonour; modesty”),[3][2][4] from Proto-Germanic *skamō,[3][2][4] also the source of Old Saxon skama, Old Norse skǫmm, Dutch schaamte and German Scham,[3][2][5] a word of unknown etymology.[3] Barnhart finds no root of corresponding form and sense outside Germanic;[2] Etymonline's best guess is Proto-Indo-European *skem-, from *kem- “to cover”, covering oneself being a common expression of shame.[3] The same base formed Old English sċand and German Schande “disgrace”.[4]
Earliest recorded meaning
The painful emotion arising from consciousness of something dishonourable: about 725 in the OED.[6] The verb, to feel shame: also about 725 in Barnhart, in Beowulf, and about 897 in the OED.[2][6]
Semantic evolution
Disgrace or loss of reputation is from before 990,[6] and a piece of disgrace from about 1230.[6] Put to shame is from the mid-13th century,[3] and the interjection for shame! by about 1300.[3] Modesty, regard for decency, is from about 1300,[3][4] while a thing or person that one should be ashamed of dates from the 1580s.[3] In Middle English shame could also mean the private parts.[3] The transitive verb, to make ashamed, is from late Old English,[3] and “to cover with reproach” by the 1520s.[3] Shamefaced is an alteration of shamefast, “modest”, by association with face.[4] Greek distinguished shame as disgrace, aiskhynē, from shame as modesty, aidōs.[3] Shame culture is attested by 1947.[3]
Timeline
- c. 725 – the emotion of shame; verb.[6][2]
- a. 990 – disgrace.[6]
- mid-13th century – put to shame.[3]
- c. 1300 – modesty, and for shame!.[3]
- 1520s – verb, to make ashamed.[3]
- 1580s – a person to be ashamed of.[3]
- 1947 – shame culture.[3]
Modern meaning
Noun
- A painful feeling of guilt, embarrassment or disgrace.
- The capacity to feel this: have you no shame?
- Disgrace or dishonour.
- A person or thing that brings disgrace.
- A regrettable or unfortunate thing: what a shame!
Verb
- To make someone feel ashamed.
- To bring disgrace on.
- To outdo by being better: her effort shamed us all.
- To force by making ashamed: shamed into apologizing.
Word family
- shamable
- shamably
- shamefaced
- shamefast
- shameful
- shameless
- ashamed
- unshamed
References
- ^ Jones, Daniel (2011), Cambridge English Pronouncing Dictionary, 18th ed., ed. Peter Roach, Jane Setter and John Esling, Cambridge: Cambridge University Press
- ^ a b c d e f g Barnhart, Robert K. (1988), The Barnhart Dictionary of Etymology
- ^ a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s Harper, Douglas. Online Etymology Dictionary, https://www.etymonline.com
- ^ a b c d e Hoad, T. F., ed. (1986), The Concise Oxford Dictionary of English Etymology, Oxford: Clarendon Press
- ^ Pearsall, Judy, ed. (1998), The New Oxford Dictionary of English, Oxford: Clarendon Press
- ^ a b c d e f Simpson, J. A.; Weiner, E. S. C., eds. (1989), The Oxford English Dictionary, 2nd ed., Oxford: Clarendon Press